Unoffendable by Brant Hansen Book Summary + Review
As much as I love books about dragons, romance, and are filled with wild plot twists, I do also love a good non-fiction book. Bonus points if it is something that gives me practical ways to improve my life, or a new way of thinking about something-- and I especially love it when it forces me to reflect on my faith. I continued to see Unoffendable pop up and I loved the premise of the book-- to explore this provocative idea that we do not have a "right" to be offended... about anything.
Personally, this read was coming out of a season where my family was navigating a lot of interpersonal stressors, and honestly, I found myself rather offended. This book forced me to look at my expectations, unhealthy thought patterns I was carrying, and really look to see if they were in alignment the kingdom of God-- or if they were just self-righteousness.
It was convicting and inspiring and gave me a whole new perspective on the feeling of offense. This post will share the summary of the book, plus my personal thoughts and review!
About the Author
Brant Hansen is a radio host, author, and advocate for Cure International, an organization dedicated to providing medical care for children in developing countries. As the host of a radio show, he is known for his easy-going style and humor, which makes his work highly approachable. He frequently collaborates with Sherri Oddcast, bringing a mix of wisdom and wit to faith-based discussions. His ability to convey deep spiritual truths with simplicity and warmth makes Unoffendable a compelling read.
This was the first book of his that I have read of his, and I will definitely be adding more of his work to my TBR list.
Book Summary
Brant Hansen’s Unoffendable presents a radical idea—that Christians should completely let go of anger, even the so-called righteous indignation that many believe is justified. This original book challenges a common belief held in Christian circles: that some level of justifiable indignation is not only acceptable but even necessary. However, Hansen argues from a biblical perspective that holding onto offense only fuels perpetual frustration and keeps us from experiencing the life of love God intends for us.
The entire book revolves around the idea that choosing to be unoffendable is not just a good thing, but actually essential for our spiritual health. Hansen emphasizes that feelings of anger—even when they seem justified—lead to perpetual anger, which harms our relationship with God and others. By examining human nature and the context of biblical teachings, he shows how letting go of offense allows us to extend god’s grace and live with a deep sense of compassion.
Hansen also discusses the way things are in societies today, where outrage is seen as a virtue, especially in a cancel-culture society fueled by social media. He argues that true change happens not through anger, but through humble folk choosing love and forgiveness. Through short chapters filled with humor, relatable stories, and practical advice, Hansen encourages readers to adopt an attitude of gratitude, leading to less stress, less work, and a significant decrease in unhealthy thought patterns.
The updated edition of the bestselling book includes brand-new chapters that dive deeper into how this perspective can bring about a profound change in our daily routine. He also explores Jesus’ powerful demonstration of forgiveness, such as in Zacchaeus' house and the prodigal son’s older brother, reinforcing that the kingdom of God operates on immense mercy rather than justified resentment.
Personal Review
Reading Unoffendable was both challenging and refreshing. Hansen’s writing style is engaging and conversational, making deep spiritual truths feel accessible rather than heavy-handed. His conversational style reminded me of reading blog posts—casual yet impactful.
One of the book’s greatest strengths is how it provides a range of actionable steps to help readers actually become the most unoffendable people. (Because he argues that as Christians, we should be). Instead of just preaching about the importance of letting go of anger, Hansen offers practical steps rooted in Christian teachings. His references to C.S. Lewis, Dallas Willard, and other thinkers add depth, while his humor keeps things light.
The most convicting part for me was realizing how much energy I waste on feelings of offense. Hansen argues that being offended all the time puts us in a good position to feel superior but a terrible position to reflect Jesus’ gesture of love. Letting go of offense isn't about ignoring divine justice but trusting in divine wisdom—a shift that brings profound peace.
Hansen also makes a strong case that living in service of others should be a foundational element of Christian faith, rather than focusing on defending our personal Christian beliefs. The joy of gratitude and extending vast grace to others ultimately makes life better for everyone involved.
Final Thoughts
If you’re looking for a book that will challenge your perspective while making you laugh, Unoffendable is a must-read. It’s especially relevant in today’s world, where outrage is an expected response in every dinner table conversation and online debate. Hansen’s arguments are compelling, backed by Scripture, and filled with good news: we don’t have to live under the enormous pressure of being right all the time. Instead, we can embrace the way God calls us to live—with love, grace, and an unoffendable heart.